Monday 17 February 2014

Let's KHAAPitulate......

The debate on khaaps is a burning topic, and with more and more allegations and criticisms these days, it has gained more momentum...

Local panchayats, where some oldies sit on khats under a banyan tree, smoke hukka leisurely and enjoy the scene as some people beat up an innocent woman, just for having married outside her caste, are a common feature in most villages in India.These khaps have since long, been violators of human rights. These rigid panchayats are a big reason for the so-called 'honour killings' , persistence of untouchability, male chauvinism in rural areas, suppression of women, religious superstitions, and many other social evils, that prevail in our rural society.These kangaroo courts can go to the extent of even ordering a woman to be gang-raped as a punishment, getting the so-called 'low caste' people beaten for apparently no reason at all or expelling some members out of the society due to some foolish superstitions.

People in villages have not been able to progress or develop because of their ridiculous diktats. The traditional mentality of people has stayed which makes them unwilling to accept changes, and the fear of these people has prevented them from being able to take independent decisions.

If khaps are such a burden on the locals themselves, why do we have them?

In the older times, such communities existed because conflicts, land disputes, resource distribution matters,etc. had to be solved and the elders of the society were considered to be the wisest for this purpose.

In today's time, even with the presence of a decentralized polity and a strong judicial system, people approach khaaps because:

They can't  go to courts due to lack of time, means and money.

They feel land disputes, matrimonial affairs,etc. are best solved at the hands of this local judiciary.

Orthodox cultural families who don't like state interference in their culture, have strong faith in traditional panchayats and prefer to get their personal matters solved through khaaps.

Approaching the police in backward rural areas is practically useless since they are either not available       most of the time or are too lazy and unwilling to work. They are also often corrupt and work under the       influence of the powerful.

Thus, with such great power and age-old legitimacy, these khaaps have very smoothly exploited people for their own selfish needs.

Why can't the government ban khaps?

Firstly, it is unconstitutional. All of us have a Fundamental Right to Association under the Right to Freedom, Article 19 (c).

Secondly, it is not a registered institution. Rightly put by Arvind Kejriwal, if we put a ban on khaaps, they will come out with some other name. How many communities can we ban?

How do we get rid of this problem?


Each khaap should register itself with the government. Until khaps are not institutionalized legally, it will be   difficult to take action against them.

Increase the efficiency of police to ensure law and order in villages.

They should be allowed to take decisions on certain specified subjects only.  A government body should be constituted that keeps a check on the working of khaaps.








Thursday 6 February 2014

ENTERTAINMENT EXTRAVAGANZA.....

Lately, I've been atttending a number of weddings. With this 'big fat Indian wedding season' on, the town is painted red and festivity is in the air...

I've always relished the splendour of Indian weddings. We have always enjoyed marriage as a festival, not like some formal function. Unlike the quiet, solemn weddings of the west, our weddings are full of chaos, noise, pomp and show. Whilst the ceremonies in west are a matter of few hours, our festivities are weeks long with the maximum rituals and customs.
And how can we forget the 'baarat'?? The happiest people on earth, dancing to let the crowded streets and the impatient traffic know of their immense pleasure. The band leads the gang, with the most unimaginable bollywood songs on the trumpet....

At the venue, it is interesting to look at the sparkling girly dresses and  the beautiful decoration.
It is amusing to see toddlers and a little older ones, enjoying the music thoroughly and running to and fro, with their angry moms desparately persauding them to stay in place.
Then there's exchanging greetings and wishes with the bride's or the groom's parents, who after a lot of protest,accept your gifts ...
The most essential feature of the weddings are the diverse and delicious delicacies... interesting salads, chaats, noodles, paneer and ice-creams, and lots more. Being a big foody, I am honestly more concerned with the food than anything else. It's something in the air at wedding eves which makes even a simple dish taste so different...

The bride and the groom, supposed to be the most important and happy people of the eve, are planted on the stage and are trapped in the series of 'clicks' and 'pics' , having to pose for a photograph every time guests come up to them...

Many people though, criticize the grand expenditure in the weddings as they feel a large amount of the food goes waste, fresh flowers and leaves used in decorations are perishable and hence not worth the price, and money spent here could be used for the needy. But with time, we need to change our perception..

Wedding ceremonies employ a large number of people. The event managers, the decoration agency, the photographers,the printers, the drivers,the beauticians, the caterers, the dancers and the cleaners,etc. are paid handsomely.
In place of charity, this seems to be a better way of spending money since it provides employment and ensures circulation of money....